Best

I was researching some recipe ingredients using the model, “best x for y”. In doing so, I found a few posts that used a slight modification of my search: “preferred x for y”.

Preferred. Yes, a much more sensible word.

“Best” denies the existence of variation in taste. It suggests that there’s one right answer. And so often, what’s right for one is not right for another.

“I prefer” sounds a little snooty, but it comes from a more open-minded framework. That is, I prefer this but you may prefer something else. It’s the best, but the best by my own judgment and taste.

When we embrace the idea of preferences, there’s room at the table for everyone.