Some things — a high-end baseball glove for example — have a break-in period. Straight from the factory, they’re stiff and barely functional. But after time and a lot of use, they’re form-fit. Even better than an inferior product that’s comfortable from the start.

Other things don’t require breaking in. A kitchen sink is supposed to work as soon as it’s installed. Software should be functional right away.

The tricky thing, at times, is managing our patience when we’re not sure if we’re dealing with a break-in period, or if something’s just not a good fit. Think: relationships, job placements, neighborhoods, new hobbies.

The question becomes, “Do I need to be patient or is this situation hopelessly flawed?”

Because some perfect fits aren’t perfect from the start.