A small lie
We’re smart people. Reasonable. Educated.
But we lie to ourselves.
Not in big ways. Mostly in small ways. Like the concept of happiness and satisfaction arriving with “just a little bit more.”
It’s more damaging than a big delusion because it masquerades as something that’s reasonable.
We’re not saying, “Once I strike it rich — a billion dollars — then I’ll be satisfied.”
No. We’re saying, “just a little bit more.” Just a little more money. Or a bit more land. Or if I was somewhat more influential. Or slightly better-looking.
We know these are false promises, but — when we’re not careful — we can start to believe them.
Of course, there’s always a little bit more beyond the little bit more that we desire.
(I’m reminded of the phrase: I still remember the days I prayed for what I have now.)
Aim for the stars. Dream big. But rest in the sufficiency of this very moment. You can be happy here.