Even if she loves to play the clarinet, even if first chair is sick … during a concert, the conductor’s job is to conduct. Not to play her favorite instrument, but to conduct the orchestra.

Regardless of our preferences, there are times when we are entrusted with a role. In those moments — particularly when it relates to leadership — the success of the group hinges on our willingness to step away from our preferences and to step into the role that we’ve been given.