Who surrounds you? What are those relatives, friends, colleagues, and associates like?

More importantly, who stays top-of-mind?

Do you spend more time thinking about a bitter neighbor, or about an encouraging friend?

A gossiping coworker, or a caring mentor?

A much as you can, surround yourself — physically and mentally — with the people that are cheering for you. The people who want you to succeed. They’re the ones that matter most.

And the detractors? They’ll show up from time to time. You don’t need to help their cause by letting them occupy your mind when they’re not around.