Around the time of the U.S. Civil War, Ann Reeves Jarvis was working to organize positive change. Jarvis’ “Mother’s Day Work Clubs” helped to educate women in West Virginia about caring for children. Later, she organized a Mother’s Friendship Day to encourage post-war reconciliation.

Jarvis died in 1905. Her daughter, Ann Jarvis — intent to create a day to honor motherhood and the sacrifices mothers make for their children — organized a Mother’s Day celebration. Over time, through Jarvis’ efforts and connections, the event spread in popularity. With a massive letter-writing campaign, she petitioned to have the holiday added to the national calendar. In 1914, the second Sunday in May was established as Mother’s Day in the United States.

As the holiday began to be commercialized, Ann Jarvis ultimately denounced Mother's Day. Her concept had been about honoring mothers. Visiting, and spending time together. It wasn’t about Hallmark cards, florists, and jewelers.

So what are we to do? Let’s get back to honoring mothers. Not just on the second Sunday in May, but throughout the year. To show our appreciation. To listen. To visit.

Celebrate these remarkable women. Not just today, but year-round. Act upon the love, respect, and gratitude that flowers can never fully express.