A big head

Sometimes people reserve praise with the precaution, “We don’t want her to get a big head ...”

What’s behind that? Are we really concerned about egos running amok? Do we feel personally responsible for creating conceit in others?

Unfortunately, people who lean toward vanity can usually get there all on their own.

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We practice generosity when we affirm the good work of others. We express, “I see you, and I appreciate you. Keep going.” Wonderful things can stem from that recognition.

Worth noting: it could be that biting our tongue when we witness excellence … that might have more to do with our own pride, and less to do with reigning in the pride of others. Probably good to keep that in check, too.